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What I am reading: “The Way of the Wild Heart”

“The Way of the Wild Heart” written by John Eldredge. Published by Nelson Books.

I’ve just finished reading this interesting book. It has taken me quite a few months but that is another story. In the last few years I’ve read two other John Eldredge books, Wild at Heart and Waking the Dead. I would heartily recommend both books.

John has written these books to address a problem he has observed in modern western society: the lack of hero figures in the male the population. Boys are no longer allowed to be boys and men have grown into pale imitations of what they could – and should – be in society. Their masculinity has been – to put it crudely – emasculated. In his books he seeks to promote ways of correcting that imbalance. Throughout his works he also brings a Christian perspective to the reasons why this is so important. He believes it is crucial for men, and young men in particular, to develop strength of character so that they can contribute more effectively in an ever changing world.

John explains how he has taken his own boys, and other men and their sons, through adventures such as camping, canoeing, mountaineering, hunting and various other activities that test and develop character. While I find his love of hunting abhorrent I do acknowledge the principles behind what he is attempting to do as worthwhile. Many fathers these days are weak and ineffective in raising boys. Many boys are rebelling because they do not have an effective father figure, a hero if you like, whom they can admire and emulate.

To have written this within the Christian context is doubly pleasing. Families and churches are in desperate need of a correction that will bring about strong male leaders, men who will fulfill their God-given roles in society, not wishy-washy weaklings.

Are you one of the six per cent?

Last week I attended a two day seminar on leadership. It was the Global Leadership Summit – rather grand name that – sponsored by the Willow Creek church. I attended in order to enhance and develop my leadership skills within my local church. It was a truly inspiring series of presentations. Key speakers included screen writer and director Richard Curtis, former US Secretary of State Colin Powell and former President Jimmy Carter.

One of the facilitators challenged the 700 people present to apply what they had learned at this summit. He stated simply that the information gained over the course of the two day event was enough to significantly change one’s life. And if everyone made one significant change as a result of the summit, whole communities could see enormous change.

Sad fact

The speaker then went on to state the sad statistic that, at best, only six per cent of attendees will do any follow up or make any significant changes. Once the enthusiasm of the event is over, once the musicians stop playing and the dust settles, people drift back into their old ways of operating. Very few make any effort to apply what they have learned. Only six per cent have any impact for change. I think that the percentage is a little generous. I suspect the true figure is much less.

Writers and the six per cent

Many people dream of being writers. Some people actually do something about it and write something. Even less send manuscripts to publishers and very few are actually published. As far as books are concerned, the figure in Australia is less than one per cent. Most larger publishers receive more than a thousand manuscripts annually from would-be authors. Of those, perhaps five to ten will ever be published. Daunting odds. That equates to less than one per cent. This figure is probably very much the same in other countries. Are you determined to be in that six per cent – or that one per cent?

Bloggers and the six per cent

The situation is frighteningly similar for bloggers. Of the 75 million or so blogs out there, perhaps only ten per cent are actively maintained on a regular basis. I’m guessing that figure – I have no hard evidence to back up my claims. Furthermore, less than one per cent, make any money from their blogging. Granted, there are people who choose to blog for the joy of writing with no intention of making money from their writing. That’s fine. But for those who intend to make a living from their writing, the message is clear. You have to be in the top one per cent in order to make even a modest income.

What now?

As in so many fields of endeavour, the learning should never end. Be constantly learning about writing or blogging so that in a year’s time you can look back and see the progress you have made in your chosen pursuit. Don’t be content to be in the 94% who hear or read about what to do – but never apply it to their writing.

Good writing.

Meditation, writing and the problem of noise

Last night we went to the evening service at our church. This is not unusual; we normally go every week.

Noise

The relaxed, informal meeting included viewing another DVD in the “Nooma” series. We’ve already seen about four of these; all have generated good discussion times. Last night’s short film was called “Noise” and it featured about ten minutes of silence – with no soundtrack – and with just a brief text on the screen every thirty seconds or so. Much of the text featured scripture verses about silence, being still or quotes about noise, quietness and listening to God. The discussion was interesting and thought provoking.

Noise is everywhere

In modern life we are surrounded by noise. One nature recordist was quoted as saying that it now takes over two thousand hours to record one hour of natural sound whereas in the 1960s it only took about 15 hours. Noise pollution is everywhere. Some of the noise in our lives is self inflicted; many people choose to turn on the radio, television or the ubiquitous MP3 player to fill their lives with sound. The ambient noise in most cities is a constant hum rising to a dull roar during rush hour(s). In all this clamour, how can we possibly think? With all this noise around us, how can we meditate on God’s word? With a lack of silence, how can God possibly get our attention and speak to us? Yes – we are encouraged to have a “quiet time” but where can we go to find a quiet place in order to have a quiet time?

A writing Studio

Some years ago I thought I would like to build a small writing studio up in the back scrub, a place well away from the house. This would be my writing retreat, a place to be quiet and let the creative juices flow. In today’s world it might just be more practical and more necessary to turn this into a prayer and meditation retreat instead (or as well).

A place just to “be”

Another problem highlighted in the discussion last night was the difficulty of finding space and time in our busy life schedules to just “be” in the presence of God. And when we do take the time, and find a space that is quiet, still and peaceful, distractions abound. These can be things like objects, the phone, books, things we need to do and the most insidious of all – our thoughts, which can roam unfettered in all directions. Being focused on worshipping God is a dying art form in the lives of many Christians. This should not be so.

Distractions to writing

In applying these principles to my writing I find that there are many similarities. I find that distractions abound, especially on the internet. I can spend all day reading the blogs of other writers and find little time left to do my own writing. In my cluttered office I find so many distractions that take me from my core business which is writing. Generally the phone is not a major distraction, but visitors can be. Fortunately this is not as frequent as some writers experience.

A quiet writing room

Having a quiet room for my writing seems to be essential for me these days. There was a time when the family could be all around making all kinds of distracting noises and it didn’t seem to matter. The television could be blaring and it not worry me one bit. The radio or music playing was welcome and people talking not a bother at all. That seems to have changed in recent years. Yes – I can still write while there are distractions all around, but more and more I prefer silence, or at least as few noisy distractions as possible. We are fortunate that our street is a relatively quiet one, and our home is set some 60 metres from the road. Our nearest neighbours are all very quiet and their houses are about a hundred metres or more from our home.

Noisy thoughts

Dealing with thought patterns seems to be the noisiest part of my life. Too often my thoughts take me off to places where I should not go, distracting me from the writing task at hand. Focus can be difficult; some days almost impossible. Physical ailments such as those BADDs (Beastly Awful Diabetic Days) I experience several times a week can also be awfully distracting, energy sapping and downright horrible.

I am learning to roll with them.

I am learning to be quiet.

I am learning to allow silence into my life.

Poem #30: A Silent Tomb

A Silent Tomb

A Father’s love –
A gift divine.
Amazing grace –
And it is mine!

Salvation’s cost –
To set me free,
Was His dear Son –
Who died for me.

An empty Cross –
A silent tomb.
I look to Him –
Returning soon!

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Copyright (c) 2007 Trevor W. Hampel.

This poem was first published in Write It in September 1996.

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Poem #29 No Guilt

No Guilt

No condemnation.
No guilt.
No shame.

How can this be?

He stood condemned.
He bore the guilt.
He suffered shame.

How can this be?

I was condemned.
Mine was the guilt.
I brought Him shame.

How can this be?

He never sinned.
He did no wrong.
He was perfection.

How can this be?

A soul condemned.
A guilty heart.
A life of shame.

How can this be?

He lived for me.
He died for me.
He rose for me.

How can this be?

A soul set free.
A heart now free.
A life is free.

This is how it can be –

I was set free
Upon a tree
On Calvary!

“There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.” (From Paul’s letter to the Christians in Rome.)

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Copyright (C) 2007 Trevor W. Hampel

To read more of my poetry click here.