How to be miserable
Rick over at his blog called Shards of Consciousness has written a list of Five Ways to Make Yourself Miserable. (Sorry – the links no longer work.)
Ouch ouch ouch.
He’s touched on a few sore points there. I seem to regularly make an art form of these habits, to the point where I feel miserable if I’m not miserable.
Time to go out walking and birding.
That usually cures me for a while.
Thanks for the wake up call, Rick.
Check out my birding blog here.
Updated November 2013.
A lifetime of journal writing
I am beginning to discover that there are a few other strange people out there a bit like me.
Quite a few in fact.
Strange, because they, too, are compulsive journal writers.
It seems that once bitten most people are journal writers for life. I have written in my journal off and on for 16 years. I just checked – seems longer. Originally I wrote in lovely hard cover books. In more recent years I have used my laptop exclusively. One day I might even print it all out.
Some people, it seems, write daily. They must be very disciplined, and have lots of time. I’m still working on both discipline and the use of time. I recently came across an essay written by someone who examines the philosophy behind journal writing.
The essay is called Meditations on 25 Years of Journal Writing written by Kimble James Greenwood. This particular journal writer has the bug quite seriously, writing in a multitude of forms.
As I grew older and the process continued, the journals themselves split off and diversified, specialized—so that my main journal, the “personal journal”, was now accompanied by adjuncts: poetry journals, dream journals, fiction journals, quote journals, journals to list memories in, to list books read, movies seen, vocabulary lists, curious gleanings from newspapers and magazines, etc.
I must admit that my journal was a ‘one size fits all’ type. It was at first a record of events. Soon it developed into reflections on life, experiences, comments on events, poetry, snippets of life, cuttings, quotes from books, poems, sermons, scripture and friends. It was like life itself: unplanned, random and meandering.
Procrastination and the Writer/Blogger
Procrastination.
It’s not a four letter word – but it should be.
I actually spell the word procrastination like this: P L A N N I N G.
Sometimes I even spell it like this: R E S E A R C H.
Just Get it Done
Getting things done on time in the corporate world is essential – do it or you don’t have a job. Putting tasks off is a mine field of trouble in any occupation. But for writers and bloggers it can be disastrous. If you keep on putting tasks off you get nowhere. If you don’t post regularly no-one is going to come reading your blog and your income will dribble to nothing (if you are relying on income from your blog). For writers in the print world, if the manuscripts aren’t being finished, or submitted, they are not going to get published. Hence no income. Just get it done.
Bad habits – Good habits
The habit of procrastination is like any other habit: it can be broken. It can be changed and hopefully replaced by good habits. Here are some of my ways of overcoming procrastination:
- I keep a graph of how many hours I spend writing each day – I have set a goal for each month and for the year.
- I keep a chart showing how many words I write each day – again I have set a goal for each month and for the year.
- I keep a schedule of blog postings I make – including ideas for those postings I plan to make in the future
- I keep a list of stories and other manuscripts I have submitted to publishers
- My wife acts like a “dripping tap” reminding me about submitting manuscripts (bless her – she doesn’t call it nagging).
Now – keeping all these lists and graphs and so on could be misconstrued as a very clever cover up for my procrastination. Guilty as charged. However, all this information does keep me on track. I’ve refined the process over the years so that it takes up very little time each day and the most important thing is that it keeps me accountable to myself. I can see instantly how I am going. If I haven’t made a posting on one of my blogs for a week – it shows a big blank. It acts as a motivation to get back on track. If I haven’t submitted a story or poem to a publisher for three weeks, I need to do something about it. Just get it done.
Related articles
Getting a Life
I’ve recently read two great articles on the hectic, demanding life of bloggers and writers. The first was Maintaining a Blog/Life Balance written by Darren Rowse. The second was by Wendy Boswell and called How to get things done working inside and outside the home.The issue of scheduling came up in both articles. Finding a balance between writing or blogging and the rest of life is a delicate balancing act. Since starting to blog seriously in March I have found that the pressure to post has sometimes taken a little enjoyment out of the whole process. Yet the challenge is there and is, in itself, enjoyable. I have certainly done far more writing in the last four months than ever before. And that has to be good.
Some of my frustrations – in no particular order:
- I have been trying to establish myself as a writer of children’s books for over 20 years while at the same time teaching full time (until 2 years ago).
- I have been trying to get things done around the house – like basic maintenance – that has been neglected for far too many years.
- The frustration of trying to write full time while ill over the last 2 years. I’m much better now but I sometimes feel I have to make up for lost time.
- The demands of trying to get serious about blogging – which means less time for traditional print writing projects.
- The concept of trying to enjoy ‘retirement’ from teaching. I seem busier than ever.
- The demands of family and friends – often very relaxing and necessary but a distraction from writing.
- The demands of the community and the various committees I sit on and community groups I am interested in supporting.
That’s enough whingeing.
What to do about it?
Darren’s article has some simple, basic, commonsense suggestions:
…over the last 12 months I’ve met a number of bloggers who have seriously worried me in terms of their blog obsession (â€blogsessionâ€).
Creating a healthy blog/life balance is important and for me includes:
- having days off
- taking longer vacations
- having times during the day that are set aside for family
- setting time aside for exercise
- prioritizing time for face to face interactions with people
- developing other hobbies
- setting limits on how late you’ll stay up and when you’ll go to bed
Great ideas. I know one that has me particularly concerned: “settting aside time for exercise”. I had plenty of exercise last year training for my trek towards Everest in January (read my Travel Blog – click here). I was walking some 2 to 3 hours daily in preparation. On my return I lapsed into old habits and this year I’ve started putting on the weight I lost during my preparation and on the trek.
Health Issues
Add to the lack of exercise is the recent news from my doctor that I am diabetic. We’ve got a good handle on the diet side of things, but the regular exercise I need to lick now. It is too tempting to just stay inside on cold days like we’ve been having in recent weeks.
I think I’ll stop now and go outside and do some gardening.
Making mistakes
Writing is an inexact art.
We all make mistakes, errors of judgement and we sometimes follow the wrong path. We may spend too much time on one writing project and neglect a more important one. We may expend enormous amounts of energy on researching a topic when the information was readily available in some other form.
Writing Blogs
Writing blogs is no different, except that there seem to be many more variations on a theme than with writing for the print media. Blogging is a rapidly developing form of writing, and it is different in that the writer is also the publisher. The blogger has to also be the editor, promoter, sales department and fill host of other roles, not the least of which in site manager and resident techie. It can all get a little overwhelming.
Time commitment
Darren on ProBlogger has a link to an interesting article about a blog network owner who shares the mistakes made in running a blog. The first one listed is everyone’s bogey, it seems: Under-estimating the time commitment. Writing a novel takes months and even years; not many people under-estimate the commitment there. But everyone expects a successful blog takes only a few minutes every day or every few days, and it will be on everyone’s blogroll in a few weeks or a month or two.
To read the full article by Mac Slocum at The Independent Publisher click here.